Allah has
spoken in Surah Al-Mukminun verse 96-98:
" إدفع بالتي هي أحسن السيئة, نحن أعلم بما يصفون, وقل رب
أعوذبك من همزات الشياطين, وأعوذبك رب أن يحضرون"
Which means:
"Repel evil done to you in the best way, We Know best of what they say.
And say: "O my Lord! I seek refuge in You from the whisperings of the
devils, and I seek refuge with Thee, O my Lord, that the devils will not come
near me"
And also in
Surah Fussilat, verses 34-35:
" ولا تستوي
الحسنة ولا السيئة, إدفع بالتي هي أحسن فإذا الذي بينك وبينه عداوة كأنه ولي حميم"
It means:
"And the good deed and evil deed are not equal. Repel (evil that is aimed
at you) in a better way; when you do so then the one who had enmity towards
you, will immediately become as a close friend. "
From the
Qur'anic verses and Hadiths mentioned above, it is clear that Muslims should
educate themselves to be a man of high moral virtues and noble. We have to be
patient and not to reciprocate an insult with an insult. It is encouraged that
we ignore those insults and not to let them cause a negative effect to ourself
as that will only give them the satisfaction of insulting us.